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I’ll shove a cucumber up my ass!

It was a bright bulb moment. Newton had his apple. I went with the gourd family.

I was 18, new to New York, and drunk on the D coach. Drunker than usual. I had been embarrassed that night. There was this comedy group at NYU, and I was its sound guy. It was my job to urge the play button on a cassette boom box so that, after the punch line of a sketch, R.E.M. or Okay Young Cannibals would hit in. It was 1989.

In rehearsal that night, I’d fucked up a cue. I’d played “The Humpty Dance” after a sketch meant to end with “Back in Black.” One of the group members said, “Kevin, you don’t know this cue by now?” Then he had started singing, “If you don’t know it by now,” like Harold Melvin, and the whole collective chimed in like the Blue Notes: “You will never, ever, ever understand it, ooo-wooo!”

It was silly to be so embarrassed. I was too sensitive. I’d grown up knowing I was gay and not knowing I had ADHD, but always in this tug-of-war between creature proud and mortified to be so different. So when the group m

Why do some straight men have sex with other men?

According to nationally-representative surveys in the United States, hundreds of thousands of straight-identified men have had sex with other men.

In the new book Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America released today, UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva argues that these men – many of whom enjoy hunting, fishing and shooting guns – are not closeted, bisexual or just experimenting.

After interviewing 60 of these men over three years, Dr. Silva found that they appreciate a range of relationships with other men, from hookups to sexual friendships to secretive loving partnerships, all while strongly naming with straight culture.

We spoke with Dr. Silva about his book.

Why do straight-identified men have sex with other men?

The majority of the men I interviewed reported that they are primarily attracted to women, not men. Most of these men are also married to women and prefer to have sex with women. They explained that although they loved their wives, their marital sex lives were not as active as they wanted. Sex with men allowed them to contain more sex. They don’t consider sex with men cheating and s

Men who have sex with men (MSM)

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Can gay men give blood?

Gay and bisexual men are not automatically prevented from giving blood.

Men who possess sex with men and who have had the similar partner for 3 months or more and meet our other eligibility criteria are able to give blood.

Anyone who has had anal sex with a fresh partner or multiple partners in the last three months, regardless of their gender or their partner’s gender, must wait 3 months before donating.

We evaluate your eligibility to donate blood based solely on your own individual experiences, making the process fairer for everyone.

If you are taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) you will be unable to give blood. If you stop taking PrEP or PEP, you will need to wait 3 months before you can give blood.

We appreciate that any deferral is disappointing if you want to save lives by giving blood.

If you have previously been unable to offer blood because of the guidelines and would appreciate to donate, please name us on 0300 123 23 23. One of our team can review the new guidelines with you and, if eligible, book your next appointment.

Why is there a 3-month wait after sex?

The 3-mon

Injecting drugs

Sometimes people inject crystal meth and mephedrone. With this there is an increased risk of infections and viruses like HIV and HEP A&B. To minimise your risk never share needles.

Set Group Rules

Agree in advance, and while sober, what sex you want to have – and don’t want to have. Make sure everyone is in agreement about what is going to happen and respect others boundaries.

Safer Sex?

Be upfront about the type of sex you want to contain – including if you want to use condoms. – and bring safer sex materials with you. Not using condoms can put you at uncertainty of STIs, and people on certain drugs may have rougher sex increasing the risk of bleeding and infection.

PrEP

PrEP is a drug which, when taken correctly, prevents you from contracting HIV. If you are going to own unproteced sex with muliple partners and under the influence of drugs – PrEP could be beneficial in limiting your chance of HIV infection.

Other substances?

You should avoid mixing drugs, with alcohol and any other drugs and never mix poppers with erectile drugs like Viagra – please check out our information on dosing for more advice o

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